Metal Reviews

see. this is what im talking about. she is torturing you. when you get a text from her you probably answer it right when you get it. correct? there is no reason no real reason why she should make you wait 3-4 hours for a text back unless she is in a class or her phone went dead. and look at the results. your going threw torture. maybe im just a jaded prick but this is why i do this first to a girl. there is no reason in this day and age to not text someone back right away. really how long does it take to text someone? a minute? 30 seconds? D.I. i really feel for you man. truly. its a shitty feeling. if i were you id prepare myself for the worst man. get ready for it now. dont keep torturing yourself. or just come right out and ask her what you want to ask her and get it over with asap. i would just ask her how she feels at this point. i know the way you feel all too well man and it sucks.

That wasn't meant to attack you personally although I'm sure it sounded that way, apologies. And it wasn't my intention to offend you either. It's just that I've heard this so many times now that I've become sick of it. Ofcourse there are indecisive women, I'm well aware of that. Just as I'm aware that I've been extremely lucky to have found a girl who knew what she wanted and that that was exactly what I was looking for as well. I've never been a fan of overthinking things and using certain tactics in this kind of situations anyway. Every girl is different though so who knows, this might actually work with her.

Nima, have you talked with another girl about this? A female perspective could give you some insight into this.

Yes I have as a matter of fact! She has said to tell her how I feel in just one sentence. Tell her that I'm revealing all my cards to you on the tablet. She said, that's all I do and stop at that. And wait for her response.

EDIT: Something like: "Danni, I feel very strongly about you, or have developed very strong feelings toward you" and pray to the lord that she will respond positively.

its all good man. its just that she is kinda fucking with him and he is a good guy and it upsets me. she sounds like she is stringing him along and ive gone threw that many times and ive become jaded in the process. what she is doing with the not texting him back and leaving him hanging is messed up. and the result is he is torturing himself over her. i dont like to see anyone go threw that kind of heart sickness.

Then that's what you should do. If you really have the feeling she's playing with you as Snake said then just cut the crap and tell her how you feel and ask her how she feels. If she says she doesn't feel the same way, she doesn't know what to answer, doesn't wan't to answer or says it'll take more time then fuck it. You've been through enough.

exactly

Happy thanksgiving to my Canadian brethren. As to therest of ya, fuck off.

Happy thanksgiving ye magnificent bastard!


Cheers!

In terms of today's date. Yes, I will either seal a deal or let it go for good.

Take what is yours.

So it shall be written... So it shall be done.

That's about as deep as I get. I'm just a fucked up duck don't forget.

Yeah, alright Wali.

I want to do something but I don't know what so I'm just gonna play piano and clarinet.

Noodles, you're alright.

The dude lives this magical, whimsical life.

I, for one, hope he played the piano and clarinet at the same time. I don't know how, exactly, but that's what I like to think.

So I went to the meeting place at 12:30. She text at 12:25 with an incomplete text. So I replied wondering what the hell she was talking about. 20 minutes later she replied saying that she couldn't make the meeting on time because she had to do something for her mother. So I was totally pissed and really just wanted to go home. Nonetheless she said she could meet at 2 and I said okay. A while after I text her back saying I could not make it for 2 just because she had acted very inappropriately (but I didn't actually tell her that). So its has been two days in a row and no date. She was very sorry about the whole situation and as she should have been and said she would see me in class. It's down right annoying when girls behave this way. What is she royalty? Who does she think she is? I mean her excuses were all innocent and legitimate but she could've made some room just to see me. That wasn't happening. I simply am not an important person in her life nor is she eager to see me. She doesn't reply to the simplest of emotions like, "I'm really looking forward to seeing you." I think this is just not going to work. I feel peaceful and also relatively melancholic. I had so much hope for this and my progressive relationship with her. I mean nothing has gone wrong but it just goes to show how much she cares and what not. I will not be texting her anymore. I will wait for her text but will never text her again. It's her turn to win me back, otherwise this is over.

EDIT: Another failed communication and an attempt to start something serious with a female.

It's very difficult for me to judge the situation properly, as I only have what's in this thread to work with, but if I may say so (please don't take offence) it sounds like you might be overreacting a little bit.

When you find yourself attracted to a girl in both body and mind, it can be very difficult to process emotions, and I think it's possible that you might be letting that cloud your judgement. If, as you said, her excuses were innocent and legitimate, and she was apologetic for screwing you around, then perhaps you should consider that she really did just become a little overwhelmed by factors outside of her control.

The question I would ask myself is, if this happened with a male frend of mine, would I jump to conclusions, or just assume the excuses he gave were the truth?

Once again, I could be wrong because I only have limited information to work from, but it seems to me that perhaps it's not quite the end of the world yet.