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You second comment there touches upon what I'm getting at a bit. People's tastes change all the time, mine have countless times. I've liked bands at one point, and then didn't enjoy them anymore. I've always started to enjoy some of them again at some point. What I'm trying to say is that saying something sucks or is terrible music when you've liked it and enjoyed it in the past seems a little disingenuous, I guess. It's like dating the most attractive woman in the world, you're in love with her, but she cheats on you and dumps you, and then you go around claiming she's ugly. Sure, you may no longer find her attractive, but deep down you know she's not ugly.
I don't have a problem with your example (though I think the first "most attractive" should have been "prettiest"). I find that sort of thing to be unfounded and childish also, and I expressed that before. It's a battle of ego versus honesty.
The problem is that prior to that, you were using the terms "like" and "terrible" interchangeably. They're not. Liking a band, not liking it for awhile, and maybe even coming back to it and liking it again has nothing, NOTHING to do with whether or not the band is good, terrible, mediocre, or whatever in between. You're not really separating the subjective claim from the objective one. Or at least you don't seem to be doing it consistently, let me put it that way.
There are times when it's pretty clear a person ought to say, "I used to like them, but I don't anymore," instead of "I used to like them, but now I don't really like them anymore and they're aren't very good anyway." But there are many times when the latter statement
is reasonable and appropriate, and that's still true even if they do like them again later. As you, and most everyone else has said, tastes often change over time.
As for extreme terms like "sucks", "terrible", "good", "great", etc., I think those get thrown around far too often for emotional emphasis because of how they are often perceived. Again, I really think this is an issue deeply rooted in egotism and insecurity, whether people are actually conscious of, or willing to admit to, it or not.
It's a little like the numerical system this site claims to use for its reviews versus the actual scores we see week in and week out.
-Tyrion