chrash wrote:
I must say that, I personally, couldn't see any sense in what you wrote in that editorial.
Seriously, everybody can listen to what they like and I (along side many other people i know) will respect it as long as they just doesn't listen to it because its hip, or its the trend in a curtain group of people to become their friends, or if they only listens to it because of the image that follows it... and i'm sad to say Ben, but you kind of fit into that category in my head along side these 13 year olds who wear black makeup and Evanescens shirts, and who don't even own a single cd by the band and only have mp3's from kazaa. Simply because you gave/give in to mass mentallity like many many people I know where its just the MTV Top 20 that dictates their current taste.
I mean, when it comes to the point of giving you physical uncomfortness just because of what people might think of you then its pretty extreme...
I mean, im not ashamed to say that I'm only 16 years old, and like Enya as well as I like Dark Tranquillity. And that I like to listen to Jean Sibelius as well as Entombed. And new In Flames as well as old In Flames (even though the older kicks the newers ass multiple times, i just like it in another way)
Thats also why I always say that I don't admire bands or musicians, or en general persons, but the music in it self. Don't know if I'm expressing myself clear enough since this is a foreign language to me.
And I was quite surprised by this because I enjoy and agree in most of your reviews and all other viewpoints...
Heres a band that I am the only one I know out of my friends that I like, Journey. Yes that's right the band that does "Dont Stop Believing" "Seperate Ways" "Wheel in the SKy" and a million sappy ballads. I dont give a shit that all my friends (who are 90% into black / death metal and grindcore. I stick out like a sore thumb when I wear my Edguy "Theater of SALVATION" longsleeve when everyone else has Marduk, Destruction, Bathory, Dissection, and Ulver *Nattens Madrigal btw* shirts on) think Journey is the pussiest band ever to play music, I love them. The reason I would gladly blast the corniest Journey ballad (hell, they even played All the Way on the music station at a grocery store here! How unmetal is that?!) than Metallica in public is because to me, Journey never took a shit on their fans like Metallica did. I would rather have people go "Oh man that guys such a pussy 80's cock rock douche" than have them go "Yea dude, Metallica rawks, you dig them too?" It's just a matter of personal principle.
As Adam said, hell he went to high school with me and he knows this, but my first two years, 9th and 10th grade, I WAS that stereotypical bitter metalhead. Then in 11th and my Sr. year I started to not be such a dick and made tons of friends with everyone (except for the goths and most of the stoners thought I was a poser anyways cos I listened to "faggy Halford rock" ), I would even go so far as to say I was the most popular person in my class. It wasnt cos of an image change or changing my music, I still wore the same thing I had been for years and still do, band shirt and blue jeans, the only addition to my wardrobe was a pair of Harley Boots. I still sported the Maiden, the Edguy, the Stratovarius, the Iced Earth, and Blind Guardian to name but a few shirts all the time. You'll be hard pressed to find me in "normal" clothes, ie Abercrombie stuff or collared shirts. I was known as "BooooZ", the guy with the long hair that listened to metal.
Im wondering where you got the impression that I never buy cds. I have almost nine hundred now plus about a half dozen boxsets and close to thirty metal DVDs (although my JOURNEY and DEF LEPPARD DVDS might be up for metal debate) as well as probably a hundred band shirts and I even have an Angra "Rebirth" denim jacket that I made. I support the bands I like, and I dont whine like a girl when hard to find cds are expensive. Just on bands like Jaded Heart and Pretty Maids alone Ive spent hundreds, and I do mean hundreds, on them (avg of 22 a cd) because here they are so hard to find but you know what? I like them so I bought them and they are some of the best purchases I have made. I've even rebought more cds than most people own, when Priest reissued their catalog in 2001, the Blind Guardian live when I left it at a friends house (he lives halfway across the US thats why I rebought it, it wasnt like I left it at a house around the block), Heavenlys debut when I thought I lost it, the American Version of HateCrew DeathRoll simply so I could burn it (the Finnish version is copy protected), the LTD edit of Inner Circle, hell, tons. I dont mean to sound like Im such rich bastard because Im not, I havent had a girlfriend in awhile so thats freed my wallet up as well as I dont pump thousands into my car trying to "pimp it out", I just love metal and thats what I buy.
As for admiring musicians, I still admire their talent and their skill but I am not a fanboy anymore. That realization hit me right on when I was at Hooters with Wuthering Heights in Atlanta, we were all talking just like we were all friends, Andreas was asking me about what I'm reviewing next on Metalreviews, Yan was talking about his band Avian, Jonah and Morten were shooting the shit and goofing off and Patrik and Erik were enjoying their meal and beer with the occasional word here and there (they were much more talkative at the hotel though, I think then they were just starving). I dont get gushy anymore, unlike when I met Kai two years ago if I ran into him again I'd just say "whats up man" then start talking to him about how I'd like to bang the hot chick walking across the street. The reason I still have this "admiration" is because I respect their talent of writing these songs as well as playing them and after I know them, as people.
Ben