The Evil American wrote:
Dead Machine,
A. If you don't want to hear other's opinions, don't post your views in a public forum. When you make statements like the one you did, people will respond, so get over it.
I'm not saying I don't want to hear other people's opinions. However, I like it when these opinions are, at least initially if not all throughout the conversations, expressed in a manner not so unavoidably rude.
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B. You can’t insult someone’s favorite band and expect to have him or her react calmly. Whether it matters or not, we metalheads care about music too much to put up with what we view as slander. If it wasn’t Jaden who responded inappropriately to a statement in this thread, it would have been someone else (maybe even you).
So what if it
could have been? The main thing is that it
wasn't.
I wasn't aware that Between the Buried and Me was Jaden's favorite band, and I don't particularly care either. I didn't say "Man, that vocalist from BTBAM sucks so much that he could sub for a vacuum cleaner," I merely put him on my list of worst vocalists because I hate his vocals. To me, he sounds like, to quote Jay, a monkey vomiting up razors.
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C. My inquiry was not meant to apply only to the situation at hand (not everything is about you). I have heard people respond the way you did to musical arguments before, and people who bring their status as musicians into the equation are always labeled as "Arrogant Jerks," no matter what the situation is. I seriously doubt you would have responded politely, even if Jaden's post had been worded more respectful manner.
You don't know me and are therefore not qualified to make such a judgement.
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People, including readers and reviewers at this site, ALWAYS seem to respond in a hostile manner to people who take musical arguments in a technical direction. This common occurrence was what I was commenting on, not just your situation. If technical accomplishments are not brought into arguments such as this, they become meaningless. You might as well be arguing whether chocolate or peanut butter is better.
I was not complaining about bringing technical abilities into the argument.
I was complaining about, mainly, the
manner in which these technical abilities/understanding was introduced into the argument.
The 'arrogant jerk' label was drawn from his insulting my knowledge of vocals. I would not have responded in such a manner had he not been such an asshole for no reason whatsoever.
Is that clear, or must it be spelled out?