Metal Reviews

Other broads in the sea, my friend. I know how it feels, though. It doesn't feel good, but you're better off having established what the situation is then being unsure.

I bought a juicer and I'm attempting a 10 day juice fast. If that goes well I may increase it to 60 days. We'll see.

If I may be so bold as to say so, a 60 day juice fast sounds like an incredibly unhealthy endeavour. You need other nutrients, too, man.

I'm afraid you, to a good extent, are rightful in your statement. I am milking it a bit too much. But I was after all really just disappointed by the whole situation. I, of course, did not show my disappointment to her and naturally so... But in any case I was just thought that I could see her beautiful face again this weekend. So how do you think I should proceed. I think I should just wait for her to text me or something. Her action was after all a bit discouraging, wouldn't you say... being directly influenced by forces not in her control or not. But then again, if she didn't have any control over it then it really shouldn't be discouraging yet it is disappointing.

Like bar said. It might not be the end of the world yet. But I think what you said is good too. Don't text her. Don't push for a meeting. Just wait it out. If she calls or text you be polite and don't leave her hanging. You will will know what is what with her soon enough. If and when she calls you or texts you to meet or talk to you, do it if you want to. But you need to put the ball in her court like you said. I'm sorry that she fucked with you today man. Don't worry about it too much though. You're a good guy and you deserve better than to be led on.

What time where you supposed to meet her? What time did she text you with that incomplete text? After you sent her the text saying you didn't understand her text how long did she wait to text you back?

All of this.

The meeting time was 12:30. Her message was at 12:24 precisely. Then my reply immediately saying I don't understand what she's saying, hence the incomplete messaging. And then she replied about 20 minutes after explaining herself once again and wanting to meet at 2 which I rightfully refused.

I don't know how healthy it is but I know a guy that lost like 50 lbs in 60 days with a juice fast. Good luck raven. I wouldn't be able to do it. I need steak in my life.

Ughhh. See man, this is what I was talking about earlier. I'm sure she knew she wasn't going to be able to make it. Why did she wait till 6 minutes till you were supposed to meet to text you a half assed message? Then you text back saying you didn't understand the message and she waits 20 mins to text you back. That's fucked up. Fuck man.

See no matter how you look at it. Even if her excuse was legitimate she should of told you earlier. When you text someone don't you look at the text before sending it. Don't you generally know if a text is incomplete and doesn't make sense.

The reason I'm getting angry about this is because your a good guy. A nice guy. And a respectful guy. And this has been done to me before. A few times at that. And it's a awful feeling. Ive said it before and maybe I'm wrong for getting so involved in this but I really feel for you D.I.

I think this doesn't look good. From reading in between the lines in your posts I know deep down you feel like this isn't good as well. But your holding out hope cause you like her so much. Im sorry man but my personal opinion is this doesn't sound like its good.

So I say stick with your gut and wait it out. Don't text her. If she texts you then just do what I said before. I'm sorry bro.

Btw: I know other guys are saying it might have been a legitimate excuse and it's not the end of the world and that may be true. But when you care about someone you don't dick them around with incomplete texts and make them wait for responses. When you care about someone you don't leave them hanging. I'm sorry if this makes you feel any worse but I don't want to give you false hope.

I just feel like I wanna step in here and mediate a little bit - Snake's opinions are clearly just as valid as anybody's, but he's obviously speaking based on some difficult personal experiences, and I'm not convinced it's as bad as he's making it out to be.

@ Snake - sorry dude, I hope you don't take offence to that, I know you mean well!

Jesus Christ, have a beer and think about something else for a minute. This is ridiculous.

I hope I'm wrong. No offense taken at all. I hope all of this works out. I really do.

It's ALL good, brothers! Listen to Wali and have a beer. It's either going to work out, or it isn't. Life goes on, I move on, everything's fine. Yeah I liked her. I actually liked her a lot. It was actually immense and my feelings were extremely strong. So the fuck what? Life is just unfair sometimes. It doesn't matter how good a guy you are or how long you've been waiting to meet that some one special. Life will just say to you that, you're just not that lucky. The universe works randomly and by mere chance sometimes. She's not taking this seriously... Why should I give a shit? Yeah she was fucking beautiful. Her hair, her eyes, her lips, her smiles. Everything. Too fucking bad!

The fact of the matter is: my perspective on life is mere realism. In some cases and more than often that means it's pessimistic because of the person I am or situational factors at hand.

EDIT: I'm going to go and buy some prime Bllek Metul and make myself happy.

Good man. TRVE CVLT BLLEK METULL.

dunno about the first date, but the second, stuff happens that can delay someone.

as for telling her how you feel, i just went for it in my case, and what came out is what the lady said was one of the nicest things anyone ever told her. i had gone to buy tickets to see the premiere of Gran Torino for us and a few other friends, but they were sold out. i went back to uni to get my stuff and then walked to the train station with her (she caught the train there, i caught the metro), and blurted out "when i was buying the tickets, i found myself wishing no one would show up but you". didn't even think about, it just came out (i was planning to tell her something, i just didn't know what lol). what i'm trying to say is that i think if you genuinely feel something, the right words will just say themselves. either that or i got lucky

Dude, I'm a nutritional consultant, use me damn it. Don't use the juicer.

@Nima: Patience man, give it some time, she'll come around. Dismissing her like that seems a bit rash if you ask me. You got all the time in the world, settle down and wait for her. If anything, you'll seem more confident by doing that. Rushing into things and showering her with questions about her feelings shows that you are insecure, which will make her insecure and yeah, you got a vicious circle going.

Agreed on both counts. Raven and Nima, listen to Thomas he is wise beyond his years.

"What does she think she is, royalty?"

Yes. Yes, she does, and yes, she is. This is a battle you will never win. Accept it now and it will be easier on you.