snake wrote:
Define Infinity wrote:
No thoughts on the current state of affairs?
i think its great. i hope you didnt jump the gun in telling her everything. it sounds like all is well though. some girls may be liking you and everything is going fine but if you tell them too much too soon it scares them away. i was worried that maybe this would happen to you. it sounds like she took it well and i hope she did. i know you like her alot if your not already really falling for her and i dont want you to get hurt. ive made this mistake before. but like i said before she seems to have taken it well so you should be good. just dont smother her.
btw it takes balls to openly tell someone how you feel. much respect to you for that.
btw #2-i think you would know if something is off. i can usually tell if things are going good with a girl or not and by what you said about the way she was after you told her i think all is going great.
I agree with your analysis. First, giving the girl room to breathe and think about things said. Second, not telling her everything at once. I do choose my words carefully and also I was very careful not to tell her something like: Oh, I'm crazy about you" or something. Which I am but there's no way I'm going to tell her that now! I think my intuition tells me a lot. I knew I wanted this girl from the first instance she came and sat down at my table. And as time goes by I can realize it bit by bit about this very case. It's a big matter for her to feel the same way or draw the same conclusions.
@Emperor: Yeah, dude. Totally. That's says a lot about her. She just seems like someone that will be loyal to you eternally. BUT, will take her sweet time to realize that, eventually.