Metal Reviews

A lot of women find a self-confident, but not arrogant man attractive. Maybe you should work on that. And never look desperate, that's a huge turn-off.

*sings*"I dont need a man to make me happy, i get off being me......"

Is that (a bad paraphrase of) the pussycat dolls or something?

I hate how i never think for myself; I always look to feel good about myself, or judge my success by what others think of me.

I need to find some kind of Happy Solitude. A way to be happy even when im alone. (Does that mean a way to be happy with myself?)

Codsarnit im emo.

I think I saw you post somewhere that you are 19 years old. Stop asking girls out and just make sure you are around whenever they get drunk and then make fun of them a little bit. The rest will take care of itself.

signed

allow me to introduce you to your right hand. or left (you crazy boy, you!).

seriously, though, i have asked out exactly 0 of them out, and i'm 20. mad peeple skillz.

me too, but apparently i do something right because 2 girls have made me their boyfriend >.<

I'm an arrogant bastard, and I'm pretty good looking... The only problems are a) I have high standards (in the intelligence department as well as the physical one) and b) long hair and leather is unattractive in a fashion-based society. Remember, I live right above Italy. Fuck Gucci.

Ah Fridge, always down on the Italians

oh please why don't you start looking for some non shallow girls that ignore you because of your hair or your clothing...or you could just dress normally

...said the emo kid.

please little boy, you act far more emo than i do. grow the fuck up, shave up your worhtless opinion about the world and act like someone with brains.

XD I fucking hate the world. But whatever, you know? Not much I can do about it...

wow.. 6!? then you have more experience than me I have never asked a girl out for several reasons. Some of the times it's because i don't want to make a fool of myself. These days however, the reason is that i don't want a short term relationship, those i see no point in, but at the same time i don't think i stand being with another person for longer periods of time, unless they are speciel. Most ppl drive me nuts after a while, with all their bullshit based on "assholecy" and ignorance.. and then moodswings.. i hate when ppl have that, and girls.. well, they are hard to figure out .. and if i do find someone speciel i feel she's out of my league, in terms of personality. I feel confident about my own look and i see ugly guys with gorgeous girls all the time, so it shouldn't be a problem, ha ha besides, i have no interest in girls who judge me on my appearance. That's somewhat why i've been looking like a hobo for 2 years now, but nobody seemed interested - it's a superficial country i live in i suppose. That is also why i've changed my appearence back to the way it used to be 3-4 years ago, got fed up by all the bullshit, stupid comments and moronic prejudices i recieved all day long. All ppl could talk to me about was my hair and my clothes, as if that was the most interesting for me to talk about 12 hours a day
Anyway, i hate going out, and i would never ever ask a girl out i didn't knew already. And the last obstacle is; i don't want to ask a girl out i know, cuz it could ruin the small amount of friendsship we might had had. So you see.. i have nothing but trouble on that area

my only hope is that some hot milf one day walks up to me on the street and lure me into her web where i will stay till i die, exsorted from all the hot loving and all the spanking... w00ops, did i just say that?

If you are interested enough in a girl you know to ask her out than you are probably too interested in her to be just friends. There is nothing worse than being friends with the girl that you want while she fucks somebody else. Men have other Men as actual friends. Girls are friendly acquaintances, or pivot girls (ie: get to their friends) or girls you have failed with and then got cuaght up in a friendship with. Dont look at them as friends. You shouldnt want to be inside your friends.

i think i got the last bit formulated badly. I meant i have nothing but trouble on the love area as such, heh. And with a small amount of friendship i just meant "acquintances". I have no real female friend, only regular acquintances, you know, i talk with girls on my seminar from time to time, but no real friends i'm afraid.

but i thank you for you good advice, anyway

for now my love for music, nature and stars have to suffice.... yup yup totally gay

and yes, i know how ridiculous i am

FTR, there are lots of older guys with less experience than you. Don't get too down on yourself. I'm 23 and I have been on maybe two dates, and have only had a chance at a relationship with 3 girls. I was physically attracted to none of them, but they wanted to get to know me, so I felt obliged.

Yeah right, I've been in Malmo, the whole fucking place shuts doen on a Sunday. I was surprised they didn't have big walls that shot up from the ground to block people from getting in.

I think my only real advice is dont 1 - make a big deal out of any girl, 2 - be drunk as often as possible, 3- dont talk about metal until she actually gets to know you

i do have some experience though... i had one (3 actually) girlfriend(s) in 6th grade, but only kissed/french kissed for real with one of them as far as i remember, despite the last one of them disagree with me (she think we kissed, i don't). I learned a "leason" back then: if you don't love a girl, don't get evolved, and attraction isn't enough either - i had had an eye on the third for a while because she was cute and beatiful, but when we finally got together i felt completely empty inside, so i just acted for while untill we slipped apart.
Anyway, back then you could just write them a silly note like " you are stupid... but sweet.. do you wanna play?" etc (and then it would evolve from there naturally). I don't think this technique will stand a chance in the world of grown ups, though
These days i'm totally blind, i guess, i wouldn't know if a girl was interested, i would just ignore the though automatically, unless she walked up to me and stated she was interested in me, of course.

I'm 23 too in 2 months, btw




probably some of the best advices so far Most ppl i know hook up with each other while being drunk... and well, my metal hasn't helped me either

The only girls I can recall having an interest in me said it was because of the long hair.