Carnifex-
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What, exactly, are these problems that white females have with black males? I've lived in two major cities, both with a high percentage of non-whites (albeit mostly Hispanics in Phoenix) and I'm unaware of these problems of which you speak.
There is something relevant to this that needs to be pointed out, then. Please don't take it the wrong way- I'm not trying to be mean or offend you or anything. It's just the truth. I'm not saying it to be conceited- just to make my point. So I'm sorry if you get mad or anything like that.
The reason I'm having problems and you're not is because
[I look different from you]. I have very long blonde hair which seems to fascinate people (strangers just love to come up and pet it for some reason- very disturbing), I'm tall, and I have a figure that I couldn't hide even if I wore a burlap bag. From the pictures of you that I have seen (granted, so far, only 2),
[you'd appeal more to a metalhead than a black guy looking for big booty].
As a result, I get way more attention from guys than I would like. My preference would be to blend nicely into the scenery and not have anyone notice me. But I can't walk down the street without people honking at me and pulling over trying to offer me a ride. I even had one guy follow me halfway down the street, driving his car to match my pace so that he could stare at me. This is not only uncomfortable for me, but it's very scary. I don't know these men or what their intentions are. I have to walk home alone to an empty house and I find it strange that these people I don't even know are behaving like this and following me. It doesn't help that I've had a guy try to kidnap me before. More threatening to me are the ones who get off the bus when I do and then try to follow me home, the whole time shouting lewd and suggestive things at me, because I know I probably couldn't outrun them.
Because I don't drive, I either have to walk or take the bus. The bus stops in downtown are crawling with more blacks than you've ever seen all in one place in your whole life. For a white woman to walk by herself through that is not safe. They don't bother black women- those fat ones with a zillion kids running around. They don't have to- it's obvious to them that they could have one of those girls whenever they want. They want to see if they can get someone better looking than that. Unlike most white men, blacks seem to have no understanding of what it means to stay in their league. A white guy might see a pretty girl walk by and think all kinds of naughty things, but a black man will actually approach her, labouring under the delusion that she wants him. I have never been harrassed by a white man. So farm they've all known when to take a hint.
Most black men know that they can get within arm's reach of a white women and do so at every opportunity. They like to come over and start chatting her up in that special way that only blacks are capable of. :roll:
They are not really interested in talking to her or getting to know her. No, what they are doing is sizing her up- trying to gauge her potential to be victimised. They might try to figure out how liberal she is (i.e. how interested she is in bettering the lives of blacks) or how accepting she is of multiculturalism (i.e. is she sympathetic to the plight of the black man). Often times, in my experience, this takes the form of telling me of all they times they were "wrongfully" arrested and how they "ain't done nothin'" and try to get me to agree that the cops only arrested them because they were black...not because they were found with cocaine and weapons for which they did not have licenses to carry. Less frequently, but still common, is the story about how they're poor because no one wants to hire a black man. Situations like this become even more uncomfortable on the bus. Inevitabley, one will plop himself down next to me so that I can't get away from the encounter.
Being stuck in a situation like this is threatening, frightening, and sometimes, humiliating. Sadly, incidents like these occur so frequently, that I'm no longer really surprised by the negro's shameless, agressive, and rude approach. However, I can't tell them to piss off...I have to fake friendliness for fear of provoking them, especially after hearing about creeps like
this. Maybe it's just me, but I think there's something wrong with the fact that I am being coerced into having a conversation I don't want to have because I'm afraid of what they might do. After all, if I piss them off, they certainly could get off at the same stop as I do and follow me home. They could wait for me the next day, too.
If I say "I can't talk right now, I have to study", I hear, "what's the matter? why don' yoo wanna talk wif a black man?" or "yoo a racist bitch!" Sometimes, they might use this to justify attacking me or it might be a tactic to get me to proclaim that I'm not predjudiced against them, which does nothing but positively reinforce them for the next encounter. Unfortunately, this action on my part only encourages their predatory behaviour, but I'm left with little choice. Blacks often equate both niceness and directness with being a victim. If she's nice, she's passive and probably an easy target. If she's direct, then she's a racist bitch and any attack on her is justified.
Statistics can only reinforce my position. A black man is about 37 times more likely to rape me than a white man and about 20 times more likely to murder me. (And I'm sure some of you are rejoicing over this fact- I bet it'd make a lot of people's day to hear a negro raped and murdered me.) Even if I had never had bad encounters with negroes, these stats alone would still make me cautious. And black men aren't the likely suspect for a date rape, either. No, they prefer the more violent, drag-her-into-an-alley-at-knifepoint, method. Why? Because for them, it's not about bedding the girl they like. It's about power and dominance and fear, and maybe sometimes about getting back at whitey (like
this guy). It has nothing to do with sex. They just want to hurt her and scare her...maybe kill her in the process or leave her with AIDS, whatever. For those who like to argue that blacks commit more crimes because they are poor...I'd like to know how rapes, murders, and assaults profit them?