Sasheron wrote:
Mini-replies to everything that was not addressed to my satisfaction. I'm actually disappointed and think a lot was missed out. Look at what happens when I'm gone *sigh*.
Nature is not a sentient being and has no intentions. Nature is accidental. Humans 'defy' what they see as nature's motives all the time and what they see as defying nature varies depending of what point they try to make. Personification of nature is fail. Do not speak for nature, you don't know what it could 'want'. For all we know it could be giving us a thumbs up for all we do. After all, ants build anthills...
Also, remember that evolution is a satisfier, not an optimiser. Everything that happens through the process just happens to be an accidental feature that just happened to work. It's not the best feature, hence you have your balls on the outside. So fucking DEFY. DEFY DEFY DEFY. That's why I don't bleed every month anymore, because that is a stupid feature of my anatomy and I wanted it stopped, and I finally could stop eating meat (which humans did not evolve to be able to do too well btw, with our long colons and everything). Benefits for all.
Social Darwinism - don't get me started.
You say: "Do not speak for nature, you don't know what it could want", then turn around and say that nature is accidental... I love how you claim that we can't speak for nature and then do so in the same breath.
How do YOU know that nature is not a sentient being?
How do YOU know that nature is accidental?
How do YOU know that there is no "method to her madness"?
Fact: procreation of humans is obnly possible through a male and a female. That is how nature has it. When humans start fooling around with things, it becomes man-made, unnatural, artificial.
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FOR THE GREATER GOOD
THE GREATERRRRRRRRR GOOOOD
THE BIG GREAT GOOD
You know, I don't give half a shit for the greater good. I don't believe in group/species selection, utilitarianism or personal sacrifice unless it benefits me directly or substantially through indirect means. If you are going to slam me for using big words, forget it. You've been talking about those things all along, those are just their official definitions.
What big words? Anyways, that sounds very self-centered.
I sure hope you don't have children, since the first thing you learn is: you come last.
And, please spare me the lesson in semantics; I get it you are in Uni, I really am not impressed that easily.
A good example of sacrfice for the greater good is Japanese auto manufacturing companies vs. American automobile companies.
The Japanese execs make personal sacrifices in favor of the company, while in American companies, all the sacrifices are made by the workers, i.e, the company.
When a Japanese company fails to meet it's goals, the top guy doesn't geta pay raise, whereas the American CEO gets a pay raise regardless, even in the face of massive layoffs... even when the red ink is so thick that the CEO has to go, he STILL gets an obscene severance package; the little guy? He / she gets the door.
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If you think that I have to abandon my intellect, my ambitions and my love of work to push out and raise several babies, you're strange. Would you personally give up those things? The real sexist thing to say is to say that women can't make their own decisions and should sacrifice their lives to the greater good. The best thing about the new arrangement is that I can actually make a decision about not having children. I love university, I wouldn't give it up for anything. What the fuck is the greater good for me if I don't feel it?
Who said anything about you or any woman giving up intellect, etc.?
If you are going to raise a family, male or female, sacrifices have to be made, by both parents.
Me, me, me, all the time is fail, as you put it.
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Sure, there is some loss from the 1950's, but the gain is immense and noble. I was a latch key kid, and it rocked. Taught me independence while my dad and my mum worked together. Instead of my mother being lonely at home with no one but children and other housewives to talk to and me being constantly watched, my mother spent a great deal of time with my dad and very stimulating people. Through their combined efforts I was able to work with them too and explored the world in a healthy, independent way. What's the advantage of 'traditional values' over what I had? It was amazing!
Good for you.
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No matter how much I love my partner, when we cut up a cake I will always take the bigger piece. This is not cultural, this is natural

Think about it, since you love 'the law of nature' so much.
I don't; I believe in courtesy and manners, and more often than not I will offer the bigger piece; the fact the you always take the bigger piece makes you sound grasping and selfish.
And if your partner did the same, you'd probably think he or she was selfish.
And it is cultural; in a situation where it is every person for themselves, I could understand it, if not necessarily condone it. But there is plenty of cake to go around; how do you feel about the Mega-corporations making many millions of dollars while paying workers barely enough to live? What about forced slave labor?
In some countries, people make barely enough for a bowl of rice, while some fat bastard in a NYC penthouse who runs that business makes a million $$$ just for showing up to a meeting a few times a week.
So, you must agree with that as well, right?