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saying something is bullshit is not an argument, and can you prove that this kid won't be fucked up?
Its not, true. Hence the 500-600 other words in my post. And no, I can't prove that this kid won't be fucked up. Maybe he will. And can you prove that this kid will be fucked up? No more than you can any other kid. As I've said, most studies find no difference in children raised by gay parents and the kids raised by gay parents I know have turned out fine- some have had problems, but others didn't, and they've all gotten over them, save one; but then, I have many friends raised by heterosexual parents who have problems. Nothing's guaranteed either way. Some links:
http://www.time.com/time/magazine/artic ... -5,00.htmlhttp://www.csun.edu/~psy453/harm_n.htmNote that studies that show otherwise are mainly made by right wing Christians. This is not to turn this into a political debate, but to note that these institutes are clearly biased. Example:
http://www.familyresearchinst.org/FRI_E ... .html#infoNote the further articles at the bottom, which essentially reinforce all the old stereotypes that gays are AIDS spreading, child molesting machines who completely choose their orientation. The institution, the Family Values Institute, is essentially one gay hating machine.
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And are you knocking traditional western values? Western "culture" is becoming less and less civilized, not the other way around, and isn't it funny how that downward slide is directly proportional to the farther we drift away from traditional values?
I enjoy the western tradition, and think there are lots of things worth keeping. That being said, there are lots of things that ought to be changed as societies naturally evolve. 100 years ago, it was part of our proud western culture that women should work in the kitchen, man should bring home the bread, a black man couldn't ever beat a white man in a fight because they just ain't as smart and can't think on their feet? Remember kids, the only good man is a proud white Protestant! In any case, my questions for you are: Why should past traditions be held onto irregardless of their value? Why are gays such a huge threat to the societal order and the family (ie: How does this news story destroy your family life?) Is it to do with gender roles? Would you prefer to be living in the 1950s than now? I truly am curious. What is this great decline you speak of? There truly are some horrible flaws in our society. Great injustices. But are they worse or better than in the past? And more importantly, can you argue that the loss of traditional gender roles and "values" has caused this decline in society, if it exists?
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Spare me the liberal pc BULLSHIT
I thought we agreed that this was a naughty word.
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, I am not interested in politics, anyways... social Darwinism notwithstanding, whether or not you think you understand what natural law dictates, there are consequences that result in going against nature... air travel, automobile travel, etc... hell, the whole industrialization of the world has consequences... global warming, radioactive waste, carcinogens in the air, water and soil these are all by-products of our fiddling around with things we can't truly understand, only manipulate to our immediate gratification.
So then, our choices are clear: Shut down gay marriage and the entire industrial system or let both go along. After all, its not fair to shut down just one. So, I never expect to see you on the internet again; after all, its not as nature intended when she wrote that good old book of life's plan millions of years ago.
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It is NATURAL for a species to fight for survival; the union of man and woman results in procreation; without procreation, the species will die off; this is unnatural.
In that case, people who are single and never procreate are equally unnatural. As are people who use condoms or birth control. And why do we need to procreate as much as you say anyway? There seems to be some sort of population boom going on, after all.
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Are you seriously trying to argue that homosexuality is the natural order of things? I am not saying that it is wrong, immoral or anything like that, but it is not natural.
My main criticism with your argument is that I have no bloody idea what "natural" means. You take nature to be some all knowing entity, like a God, that directs all and has laws that must be followed, when this isn't the case at all. As far as I can tell, your definition is purely biological, meaning that its not natural for us to do anything except eat, shit, procreate, raise our young, and not die. Thats nice, but what does it actually allow for? Furthermore, if homosexuality is not something directly chosen, as I think it isn't (my gay friends didn't "choose" to become gays, and some of them didn't choose to become "heterosexuals" after- their bodies are/were just attracted to a certain gender), then yes, wouldn't homosexuality be natural?
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Back to the social Darwinism thing; are you saying that the planet can continue to sustain it's population increasing at it's current (exponential) rate? "Social Darwinism" is natures way of allowing those fit to survive that right.
Life is not fair. Some groups make it, some don't.
Once again, natural selection is a random process. Some groups make it, some groups don't. I fail to see what this has to do with homosexuality, though, unless you think that its gotten so bad that we're not going to be able to procreate anymore.
(By the way, social darwinism is a theory that natural selection can be applied to cultures and nation states; the Europeans are inherently and biologically better than the Africans because they're on top, and thats that. I don't, therefore, see the link between overpopulation and social darwinism).
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But back to the topic (I guess):
Who said anything about banning gay adoption?
They are not adopting, what does that have to do with anything?
And, again, you seem to tying this up into some sort of liberal gay-rights agenda... the... person... had an operation. A transgender. Is that also normal / natural?
And how does one have sex with themselves?
I brought up adoption because two of the underlying assumptions in this thread are that:
a) This baby will be physically deformed, and
b) That because it is raised by a gay couple, the baby will have social problems
Gay adoption is relevant to b because here we have examples of gay couples raising kids. Therefore the situation is comparable, even if in this case the baby is born.
As for a person having sex with themselves; it is impossible (well.. my hand does a good job). The point was that if this is going to be opposed because the baby won't be born in a traditional family and thus will be made fun of or have social development problems... well then, what about all these single mothers?
And once again, I'm going to have to ask you to define "natural." Is this person having the baby normal? By human and animal standards, no, not at all. Then again, there are lots of abnormal humans, but this is not necessarily a negative thing. When Copernicus proposed that the earth revolved around the sun, and even did so within a Christian framework, he was not normal by his society's standards. When Jackie Robinson became the first black baseball player, he was not normal. This stuff is fucked up and strange, no doubt. But things change. And true, sometimes for the worse, but many times for the better; and it seems ridiculous to just call this unnatural and have it a day. Until you can prove that this person is harming others by doing this, I have no idea why this is such a huge deal.
I think you misunderstand me; I couldn't care less if two dudes want to tie the knot. Like I said before, what two consenting adults do is none of my business. You dig men, more power to ya, just keep it away from me.
And I am all for orphans being adopted if both parents are capable of raising the child as it deserves.
But, Sex-changes, men giving birth, and the like is not natural or normal, and you will never convince me it is. It's fucking bizarre.
And being adopted by two gay parents is not the same as bringing home a couple of school chums and layning on them some heavy shit that your dad gave birth to you.
Define natural? I would say a course of events unhindered by the interference of man.
That's it, I'll pick it up tomorrow, but I'm off to the sack.