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snake · **Posted:** Tue Sep 25, 2012 6:57 pm

traptunderice wrote:

snake wrote:

It's when I don't really like a girl that she ends up falling for me. Love is a odd thing.

Story of my life. Sadly, I never end up liking them back. For the last two years, I've ended up liking the ones who don't want me :(

"deterministic facts in their nature"? You kill me, DI.

It's so odd. I end up not liking them at all and they like me more for it. The worse I treat them the more they want more. I wonder if girls are just masochistic by nature. Idk. It really sucks though because the same thing gets done to me when I like a girl a lot. It's a a viscouis viscious viscous cycle. I can't spell it but I'm sure you get the drift.

SilkCrimsonMoon · **Posted:** Tue Sep 25, 2012 6:58 pm

snake wrote:

Define Infinity wrote:

snake wrote:

Define Infinity wrote:

Well, since I've made this thread, like many others, into a diary of some sort, I'll give you an update on the situation at hand... :lol:

So, the date is set. I haven't spoken to her as to if she wants to grab coffee first or something and then go for dinner or the opposite. Maybe I should be making the decisions and she would just follow. At least for the first couple of dates. My french exam was, as one could say, quite horrible! I mean it was bad! I hope I get a passing grade and pass this fucking ONE YEAR COURSE! She definitely makes it easier though.

So I have no expectations upon how this date will go and no preconceived notion as to when I should be kissing her or anything. I would love to kiss her and I think of her of constantly but let's not pure emotion and nervousness settle in and delude my judgement, right? That's what I think at least. Any word to wise? Something short yet powerful and practical?

I think at this point building some strong foundation for a relationship is infinitely more important than kissing her or rushing things insofar as telling her how I truly and honestly feel about her. That will naturally come (I hope) on the second or the third date, I think.

You know, I can't go telling her: "Sweetheart, I think of you all time," that would freak her out. Fuck, who said dating is fun?

Do not tell her that you think about her all the time!!!!! You will scare her away. Girls always talk about how they want a sensitive guy. This is not true. Maybe after you have a relationship going for awhile you can open up more but not in the beginning. She will bolt.

As for when to kiss her. You have to wait for the right moment. Generally on a first date it's at the end of the night when you drop her off. If the date goes well you will know if it's going well at the end of the night that's when you go for the kiss.

Just don't be to into her if you can help it. In my experiance I always fuck up when I really like a girl. I always try to make more out of things too early. Don't do this. It's when I don't really like a girl that she ends up falling for me. Love is a odd thing.

Just don't over think things. Be a gentlemen without being to into her and if things go good go for the kiss. I hope that helps.

That does help. The matter of the fact is, I've date plenty. But none of them went anywhere because of my ridiculous and other times illogical expectations. I believe in honesty but not in all cases like dating a girl. After all, they do have some deterministic factors in their nature that can only handled when the play is right. Not too much attention but attention when needed. Timing is everything I suppose. The thing I have in mind is to play naturally, have patience and don't rush anything. It either will develop into very strong feelings for each other or it won't. That's just a reality! Or let's say she will develop strong feelings for me or she won't or I just have no clue if she does or not in the future to come.

Exacltly. Relationships are totally strange. Once it actaully developed into one it gets easier but in the beginning not so much. Girls are wired very different than men. We want what we want but girls are just conundrums. They say they want one thing but they really want the opposite. It's very fustrating. But I wish you a lot of luck and hope all goes well. Keep us informed.

Will do, buddy

@Trapt:

EDIT: I did mean to say "factors" and not "Facts."

traptunderice · **Posted:** Tue Sep 25, 2012 7:10 pm

snake wrote:

traptunderice wrote:

snake wrote:

It's when I don't really like a girl that she ends up falling for me. Love is a odd thing.

Story of my life. Sadly, I never end up liking them back. For the last two years, I've ended up liking the ones who don't want me :(

"deterministic facts in their nature"? You kill me, DI.

It's so odd. I end up not liking them at all and they like me more for it. The worse I treat them the more they want more. I wonder if girls are just masochistic by nature. Idk. It really sucks though because the same thing gets done to me when I like a girl a lot. It's a a viscouis viscious viscous cycle. I can't spell it but I'm sure you get the drift.

Preach it, my man.

Thrashtildeth · **Posted:** Wed Sep 26, 2012 1:08 am

snake wrote:

traptunderice wrote:

snake wrote:

It's when I don't really like a girl that she ends up falling for me. Love is a odd thing.

Story of my life. Sadly, I never end up liking them back. For the last two years, I've ended up liking the ones who don't want me :(

"deterministic facts in their nature"? You kill me, DI.

It's so odd. I end up not liking them at all and they like me more for it. The worse I treat them the more they want more. I wonder if girls are just masochistic by nature. Idk. It really sucks though because the same thing gets done to me when I like a girl a lot. It's a a viscouis viscious viscous cycle. I can't spell it but I'm sure you get the drift.

The problem here is that you two guys have obviously got your emotions getting in the way of what's really important - having sex.

If a girl likes you, have sex with her. You can worry about whether or not you "like her" later. Every hole is a goal.

I'm kidding, of course. But seriously, sex 'em good.

snake · **Posted:** Wed Sep 26, 2012 1:20 am

Thrashtildeth wrote:

snake wrote:

traptunderice wrote:

snake wrote:

It's when I don't really like a girl that she ends up falling for me. Love is a odd thing.

Story of my life. Sadly, I never end up liking them back. For the last two years, I've ended up liking the ones who don't want me :(

"deterministic facts in their nature"? You kill me, DI.

It's so odd. I end up not liking them at all and they like me more for it. The worse I treat them the more they want more. I wonder if girls are just masochistic by nature. Idk. It really sucks though because the same thing gets done to me when I like a girl a lot. It's a a viscouis viscious viscous cycle. I can't spell it but I'm sure you get the drift.

The problem here is that you two guys have obviously got your emotions getting in the way of what's really important - having sex.

If a girl likes you, have sex with her. You can worry about whether or not you "like her" later. Every hole is a goal.

I'm kidding, of course. But seriously, sex 'em good.

traptunderice · **Posted:** Wed Sep 26, 2012 4:18 am

Thrashtildeth wrote:

snake wrote:

traptunderice wrote:

snake wrote:

It's when I don't really like a girl that she ends up falling for me. Love is a odd thing.

Story of my life. Sadly, I never end up liking them back. For the last two years, I've ended up liking the ones who don't want me :(

"deterministic facts in their nature"? You kill me, DI.

It's so odd. I end up not liking them at all and they like me more for it. The worse I treat them the more they want more. I wonder if girls are just masochistic by nature. Idk. It really sucks though because the same thing gets done to me when I like a girl a lot. It's a a viscouis viscious viscous cycle. I can't spell it but I'm sure you get the drift.

The problem here is that you two guys have obviously got your emotions getting in the way of what's really important - having sex.

If a girl likes you, have sex with her. You can worry about whether or not you "like her" later. Every hole is a goal.

I'm kidding, of course. But seriously, sex 'em good.

On the internet and hence must be true. I'm taking this advice to heart, i.e, don't give no fucks about breaking hearts anymore because Bar said I could.

noodles · **Posted:** Wed Sep 26, 2012 4:50 am

So far a major result of not living with my girlfriend any more has been less sex.

By less I mean no.

No sex :-(

North From Here · **Posted:** Wed Sep 26, 2012 5:10 am

noodles wrote:

So far a major result of not living with my girlfriend any more has been less sex.

By less I mean no.

No sex :-(

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hrmaUDyc-nw

Thrashtildeth · **Posted:** Wed Sep 26, 2012 5:21 am

traptunderice wrote:

On the internet and hence must be true. I'm taking this advice to heart, i.e, don't give no fucks about breaking hearts anymore because Bar said I could.

Don't worry about breaking hearts, just worry about breaking hymens.

Cú Chulainn · **Posted:** Wed Sep 26, 2012 11:11 am

noodles wrote:

So far a major result of not living with my girlfriend any more has been less sex.

By less I mean no.

No sex :-(

Hit the town with your mojo on.

The Annoying Frenchman · **Posted:** Wed Sep 26, 2012 12:18 pm

Thrashtildeth wrote:

traptunderice wrote:

On the internet and hence must be true. I'm taking this advice to heart, i.e, don't give no fucks about breaking hearts anymore because Bar said I could.

Don't worry about breaking hearts, just worry about breaking hymens.

You mean, be prepared to burn the sheets ? :unsure:

noodles · **Posted:** Wed Sep 26, 2012 5:41 pm

Cú Chulainn wrote:

noodles wrote:

So far a major result of not living with my girlfriend any more has been less sex.

By less I mean no.

No sex :-(

Hit the town with your mojo on.

But I don't want to be an adulterer!

SilkCrimsonMoon · **Posted:** Thu Sep 27, 2012 4:48 am

My date was like a dream. We spent almost two and half hours in the restaurant and I haven't had such an intimate and meaningful conversation with a girl for as long as I can remember. We shared a lot laughs and talked about the past, our parents and upbringings, our hopes and dreams and our idealistic thoughts in general. We're meeting on Friday to go judging. Neither of us can really judge but it's an excuse to hang and spent time together. We didn't kiss but we had a meaningful hug and I think that's good enough for now. I'm sure the time will come when I can feel her lips. Things are quite excellent!

Thrashtildeth · **Posted:** Thu Sep 27, 2012 4:57 am

Nima gonna score.

:dio:

snake · **Posted:** Thu Sep 27, 2012 4:58 am

Define Infinity wrote:

My date was like a dream. We spent almost two and half hours in the restaurant and I haven't had such an intimate and meaningful conversation with a girl for as long as I can remember. We shared a lot laughs and talked about the past, our parents and upbringings, our hopes and dreams and our idealistic thoughts in general. We're meeting on Friday to go judging. Neither of us can really judge but it's an excuse to hang and spent time together. We didn't kiss but we had a meaningful hug and I think that's good enough for now. I'm sure the time will come when I can feel her lips. Things are quite excellent!

great news man. im happy for you. btw what is judging?

traptunderice · **Posted:** Thu Sep 27, 2012 5:08 am

snake wrote:

Define Infinity wrote:

My date was like a dream. We spent almost two and half hours in the restaurant and I haven't had such an intimate and meaningful conversation with a girl for as long as I can remember. We shared a lot laughs and talked about the past, our parents and upbringings, our hopes and dreams and our idealistic thoughts in general. We're meeting on Friday to go judging. Neither of us can really judge but it's an excuse to hang and spent time together. We didn't kiss but we had a meaningful hug and I think that's good enough for now. I'm sure the time will come when I can feel her lips. Things are quite excellent!

great news man. im happy for you. btw what is judging?

ditto that.

SilkCrimsonMoon · **Posted:** Thu Sep 27, 2012 6:28 am

Thanks, dudes. Jogging! That's what I mean to type.

Thrashtildeth · **Posted:** Thu Sep 27, 2012 6:39 am

Haha, you typed it twice, maybe it's some kind of freudian slip then!

You're meeting up to jog, but really, you're meeting up to judge each other.

Bruce_Bitenfils · **Posted:** Thu Sep 27, 2012 10:36 am

And I was already picturing Nima and his ladyfriend in a court, judging everything that breathes...

snake · **Posted:** Thu Sep 27, 2012 2:18 pm

I was thinking judging had to do with horses. :blink:

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