How do you feel today ?

bloodpet64 · **Posted:** Mon Dec 05, 2011 6:00 am

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noodles wrote:

imo stuff will effortlessly fall into place (at first) if both people are interested.

I couldn't agree more. I actually am not in a rush at all (not even in the slightest). I do enjoy single life (not that I sleep around). I only asked her because it has been a long time since I was interested and wanted to ask someone out, and more importantly ,I didn't want to feel out of form or something :lol:

. It does get harder when you become distance from something like dating, though. However, I do believe when someone "right" comes along it naturally comes to you.

i feel you on that who single life thing, not having to worry about a girlfriend can make life so much easier. If you saw my earlier post in this thread i have something going on with a girl too. she's very hot too i may add. But i don't feel the need to rush it. I'm just waiting for a good moment to ask her out and when im sober. lately ive been on various things for the past couple weeks. But dude as others have said to you here. Don't get so stressed. We all get nervous. I'm nervous myself because i usually get rejected and what not, and i'm not 100% sure she likes me. I mean she has been hinting that she might like me but still that could just be her being close as in friend zone. But it never hurts to try anyway right?

Right. I strongly feel like anything else one has to practice things like dating. I did see your earlier posts and I was going to reply to it but I got caught up doing something else. The fact of the matter is that, the first and end to a relationship, before it becomes anything serious or prior to that is this: the girl must feel secure and safe around you. Creating that situation is something that is not the easiest thing to achieve but one cannot attempt very hard in doing so because it might have a different impression on the girl. As I've said before, my only reason for asking the girl out (casually) was just to test myself again that I haven't created a wall of whatever you want to call it, in not being able or simply not caring (essentially) to ask her out.

It really is, like last night me and her were alone for a bit because she had to drop off her car at her house then go to were me and her and friends were gonna enjoy some beers and weed. A good opertunity but at the same time it didn't feel like the right time. I really wish there was an easy way to get her alone with me and a good place for it. So i can deff see why you said that. Dating is one tough cookie to learn.

U-hmm... Take your time, but don't let those right moments pass by, either.

yeah i really don't know why i didn't now that i think about it. meh Being Nervous sucks. But how's the lady friend going for you?

SilkCrimsonMoon · **Posted:** Mon Dec 05, 2011 6:16 am

bloodpet64 wrote:

Define Infinity wrote:

bloodpet64 wrote:

Define Infinity wrote:

bloodpet64 wrote:

Define Infinity wrote:

noodles wrote:

imo stuff will effortlessly fall into place (at first) if both people are interested.

I couldn't agree more. I actually am not in a rush at all (not even in the slightest). I do enjoy single life (not that I sleep around). I only asked her because it has been a long time since I was interested and wanted to ask someone out, and more importantly ,I didn't want to feel out of form or something :lol:

. It does get harder when you become distance from something like dating, though. However, I do believe when someone "right" comes along it naturally comes to you.

i feel you on that who single life thing, not having to worry about a girlfriend can make life so much easier. If you saw my earlier post in this thread i have something going on with a girl too. she's very hot too i may add. But i don't feel the need to rush it. I'm just waiting for a good moment to ask her out and when im sober. lately ive been on various things for the past couple weeks. But dude as others have said to you here. Don't get so stressed. We all get nervous. I'm nervous myself because i usually get rejected and what not, and i'm not 100% sure she likes me. I mean she has been hinting that she might like me but still that could just be her being close as in friend zone. But it never hurts to try anyway right?

Right. I strongly feel like anything else one has to practice things like dating. I did see your earlier posts and I was going to reply to it but I got caught up doing something else. The fact of the matter is that, the first and end to a relationship, before it becomes anything serious or prior to that is this: the girl must feel secure and safe around you. Creating that situation is something that is not the easiest thing to achieve but one cannot attempt very hard in doing so because it might have a different impression on the girl. As I've said before, my only reason for asking the girl out (casually) was just to test myself again that I haven't created a wall of whatever you want to call it, in not being able or simply not caring (essentially) to ask her out.

It really is, like last night me and her were alone for a bit because she had to drop off her car at her house then go to were me and her and friends were gonna enjoy some beers and weed. A good opertunity but at the same time it didn't feel like the right time. I really wish there was an easy way to get her alone with me and a good place for it. So i can deff see why you said that. Dating is one tough cookie to learn.

U-hmm... Take your time, but don't let those right moments pass by, either.

yeah i really don't know why i didn't now that i think about it. meh Being Nervous sucks. But how's the lady friend going for you?

I don't have a girlfriend. The chances aren't very high in having one, either. The girl that I asked out, was as follows: she travels a lot and I merely said that I am very interested to hear some stories from your traveling. She wasn't thrilled to hear me indirectly asking her out. She said, yeah maybe next semester, we could grab a coffee. And I'm not sure if she said maybe or if she was certain. Either way, there is also a girl in my Psychology class. She is more of an acquired taste. But I like her. She seems very stressed, though. She seems to have a very unorganized life going on. Those aside, I think a night of passion between me and her would conclude a lot of her stresses! I'm not really into her character. Then again, I don't know her that well. I don't know really. I haven't felt anything much from her being in class with her. But that could be because it's in a classroom atmosphere. I haven't thought much about her at all recently. I have to see what happens and how I feel like when I see her next.

bloodpet64 · **Posted:** Mon Dec 05, 2011 6:27 am

Define Infinity wrote:

bloodpet64 wrote:

Define Infinity wrote:

bloodpet64 wrote:

Define Infinity wrote:

bloodpet64 wrote:

Define Infinity wrote:

noodles wrote:

imo stuff will effortlessly fall into place (at first) if both people are interested.

I couldn't agree more. I actually am not in a rush at all (not even in the slightest). I do enjoy single life (not that I sleep around). I only asked her because it has been a long time since I was interested and wanted to ask someone out, and more importantly ,I didn't want to feel out of form or something :lol:

. It does get harder when you become distance from something like dating, though. However, I do believe when someone "right" comes along it naturally comes to you.

i feel you on that who single life thing, not having to worry about a girlfriend can make life so much easier. If you saw my earlier post in this thread i have something going on with a girl too. she's very hot too i may add. But i don't feel the need to rush it. I'm just waiting for a good moment to ask her out and when im sober. lately ive been on various things for the past couple weeks. But dude as others have said to you here. Don't get so stressed. We all get nervous. I'm nervous myself because i usually get rejected and what not, and i'm not 100% sure she likes me. I mean she has been hinting that she might like me but still that could just be her being close as in friend zone. But it never hurts to try anyway right?

Right. I strongly feel like anything else one has to practice things like dating. I did see your earlier posts and I was going to reply to it but I got caught up doing something else. The fact of the matter is that, the first and end to a relationship, before it becomes anything serious or prior to that is this: the girl must feel secure and safe around you. Creating that situation is something that is not the easiest thing to achieve but one cannot attempt very hard in doing so because it might have a different impression on the girl. As I've said before, my only reason for asking the girl out (casually) was just to test myself again that I haven't created a wall of whatever you want to call it, in not being able or simply not caring (essentially) to ask her out.

It really is, like last night me and her were alone for a bit because she had to drop off her car at her house then go to were me and her and friends were gonna enjoy some beers and weed. A good opertunity but at the same time it didn't feel like the right time. I really wish there was an easy way to get her alone with me and a good place for it. So i can deff see why you said that. Dating is one tough cookie to learn.

U-hmm... Take your time, but don't let those right moments pass by, either.

yeah i really don't know why i didn't now that i think about it. meh Being Nervous sucks. But how's the lady friend going for you?

I don't have a girlfriend. The chances aren't very high in having one, either. The girl that I asked out, was as follows: she travels a lot and I merely said that I am very interested to hear some stories from your traveling. She wasn't thrilled to hear me indirectly asking her out. She said, yeah maybe next semester, we could grab a coffee. And I'm not sure if she said maybe or if she was certain. Either way, there is also a girl in my Psychology class. She is more of an acquired taste. But I like her. She seems very stressed, though. She seems to have a very unorganized life going on. Those aside, I think a night of passion between me and her would conclude a lot of her stresses! I'm not really into her character. Then again, I don't know her that well. I don't know really. I haven't felt anything much from her being in class with her. But that could be because it's in a classroom atmosphere. I haven't thought much about her at all recently. I have to see what happens and how I feel like when I see her next.

my bad dude, i thought that you'd have her by now or something. Anyway, I bet you can get a girl dude, its all about finding the right one. It might take a while because there's one thing i know about being a different kind of guy ( EX: Metalheads) is that girls usually don't understand you and your music taste. Girls go for normal guys because thats the only guy they can relate to. Find a girl that listens to any kind of metal (even scene). Hell actually scene girls like metalheads allot. or maybe a girl that can see you for the guy you really are. I now im not the best at getting girls or asking them out but i do know something

SilkCrimsonMoon · **Posted:** Mon Dec 05, 2011 6:38 am

bloodpet64 wrote:

Define Infinity wrote:

bloodpet64 wrote:

Define Infinity wrote:

bloodpet64 wrote:

Define Infinity wrote:

bloodpet64 wrote:

Define Infinity wrote:

noodles wrote:

imo stuff will effortlessly fall into place (at first) if both people are interested.

I couldn't agree more. I actually am not in a rush at all (not even in the slightest). I do enjoy single life (not that I sleep around). I only asked her because it has been a long time since I was interested and wanted to ask someone out, and more importantly ,I didn't want to feel out of form or something :lol:

. It does get harder when you become distance from something like dating, though. However, I do believe when someone "right" comes along it naturally comes to you.

i feel you on that who single life thing, not having to worry about a girlfriend can make life so much easier. If you saw my earlier post in this thread i have something going on with a girl too. she's very hot too i may add. But i don't feel the need to rush it. I'm just waiting for a good moment to ask her out and when im sober. lately ive been on various things for the past couple weeks. But dude as others have said to you here. Don't get so stressed. We all get nervous. I'm nervous myself because i usually get rejected and what not, and i'm not 100% sure she likes me. I mean she has been hinting that she might like me but still that could just be her being close as in friend zone. But it never hurts to try anyway right?

Right. I strongly feel like anything else one has to practice things like dating. I did see your earlier posts and I was going to reply to it but I got caught up doing something else. The fact of the matter is that, the first and end to a relationship, before it becomes anything serious or prior to that is this: the girl must feel secure and safe around you. Creating that situation is something that is not the easiest thing to achieve but one cannot attempt very hard in doing so because it might have a different impression on the girl. As I've said before, my only reason for asking the girl out (casually) was just to test myself again that I haven't created a wall of whatever you want to call it, in not being able or simply not caring (essentially) to ask her out.

It really is, like last night me and her were alone for a bit because she had to drop off her car at her house then go to were me and her and friends were gonna enjoy some beers and weed. A good opertunity but at the same time it didn't feel like the right time. I really wish there was an easy way to get her alone with me and a good place for it. So i can deff see why you said that. Dating is one tough cookie to learn.

U-hmm... Take your time, but don't let those right moments pass by, either.

yeah i really don't know why i didn't now that i think about it. meh Being Nervous sucks. But how's the lady friend going for you?

I don't have a girlfriend. The chances aren't very high in having one, either. The girl that I asked out, was as follows: she travels a lot and I merely said that I am very interested to hear some stories from your traveling. She wasn't thrilled to hear me indirectly asking her out. She said, yeah maybe next semester, we could grab a coffee. And I'm not sure if she said maybe or if she was certain. Either way, there is also a girl in my Psychology class. She is more of an acquired taste. But I like her. She seems very stressed, though. She seems to have a very unorganized life going on. Those aside, I think a night of passion between me and her would conclude a lot of her stresses! I'm not really into her character. Then again, I don't know her that well. I don't know really. I haven't felt anything much from her being in class with her. But that could be because it's in a classroom atmosphere. I haven't thought much about her at all recently. I have to see what happens and how I feel like when I see her next.

my bad dude, i thought that you'd have her by now or something. Anyway, I bet you can get a girl dude, its all about finding the right one. It might take a while because there's one thing i know about being a different kind of guy ( EX: Metalheads) is that girls usually don't understand you and your music taste. Girls go for normal guys because thats the only guy they can relate to. Find a girl that listens to any kind of metal (even scene). Hell actually scene girls like metalheads allot. or maybe a girl that can see you for the guy you really are. I now im not the best at getting girls or asking them out but i do know allot on the subject

The thing is, I'm by no means desperate. If anyone comes along that I'm interested to know her better and opportunity presents itself, why the hell not. If that's not the case, I'm really okay with being single for as long as it takes.

bloodpet64 · **Posted:** Mon Dec 05, 2011 6:43 am

Define Infinity wrote:

bloodpet64 wrote:

Define Infinity wrote:

bloodpet64 wrote:

Define Infinity wrote:

bloodpet64 wrote:

Define Infinity wrote:

bloodpet64 wrote:

Define Infinity wrote:

noodles wrote:

imo stuff will effortlessly fall into place (at first) if both people are interested.

I couldn't agree more. I actually am not in a rush at all (not even in the slightest). I do enjoy single life (not that I sleep around). I only asked her because it has been a long time since I was interested and wanted to ask someone out, and more importantly ,I didn't want to feel out of form or something :lol: